The relationship with your mother is perhaps the most significant tie we form in our lives. Depending upon you and your mother, you may find yourself in one of the following four categories:
1. You see your mother as an angel. She is your biggest supporter. She gives you immense love and approval. You have wonderful times when you get together.
2. You see your mother as a human being with flaws. You know she did her best, and you love her for it. You enjoy your mother’s company.
3. You and your mother have had a lot of stormy weather. She can still push your buttons. You love her, but it’s an uphill battle. She is not a big part of your life.
4. You and your mother simply didn’t get along. You have mostly cut her out of your life. It’s just too hard.
There is a way to reward your mother for her lifelong love and support while creating a much more peaceful and loving relationship. Healing your relationship with your Mother will bring you peace of mind, happiness, and an open heart. If you’ve tried years of therapy, maybe try the power of positive energy. We are all beings made up of energy. There are also outside invisible forms of spiritual energy, which may be hard for us to understand because of our dense physical bodies. We can call upon this energy at any time, and that will guide and support us. Many people believe this to be a higher power, guardian angels, spirit guides or beings that have passed on before us. No matter how you look at it they are all around us, everywhere. But in order to help us, they need to be asked.
If you have a warm and loving relationship with your mother, you can call upon your spirit guide to give her more happiness in her silver years. Just say, “Spirit guide, please show me how I can love her even more.” If you enjoy your mother’s company, you can enrich and deepen your relationship. The love and joy may astonish you with the ripple effects it has in your own life. Simply say, “Spirit guide, please help me to love my mother more deeply.”
If you and your mother still push each others buttons, say, “Spirit guide, please help me get out of my own way and love my mother in a way I cannot now imagine.” If you have cut off all contact with your mother, even if it’s “her fault,” this loss is affecting you in all parts of your life—partnership, kids, health, finances. Blocked love closes your heart. Say, “Spirit guide, please help me heal my relationship and feelings towards my Mother.” Your Mother does not need to do a thing. When you open your heart and forgive, she will get it and respond. Be prepared to be astonished.
This powerful energy from outside guides can and do affect our lives all the time. Give your Mother the ultimate gift: celebration, deeper love, and an open heart.
Article Author: Sylvia Moss is a renowned, healer, fine arts photographer and author of the book “Angels of New York,” a stunning visual journey of the spectacular displays of angels that grace New York architecture. Sylvia brings her unique perspective as an international sound and energy healer to her work. She is passionate about helping people be well and transform with the healing energy of angels. Sylvia’s angels have been exhibited in many New York and US galleries, MoMA Wales, and private collections.